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ADDICTED TO ENERGY DEFICIT—YOUR NEUROSCIENCE BASED GUIDE TO RESTRICTIVE EATING DISORDERS
& AIMING For OVERSHOOT—THE HANDBOOK YOU NEED TO FULLY OVERCOME A RESTRICTIVE EATING DISORDER
Helly Barnes~
Professional Coach

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An Addiction to Energy Deficit
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How to prevent an eating disorder relapse
In this third post on lapses and relapses in eating disorder recovery, the important topic of how to prevent a relapse is covered in depth.
Helly Barnes
Dec 23, 20247 min read


Signs of a Lapse or Relapse in Eating Disorder Recovery
The second of three posts about lapses & relapses in eating disorder recovery lists the most common signs of relapse you need to know.
Helly Barnes
Dec 18, 20244 min read


Lapses, Relapses & Pre-Lapses in Eating Disorder Recovery
Lapses, relapses & pre-lapses are part of the cycle of eating disorder recovery. But what do the terms mean & what's happening in the brain?
Helly Barnes
Dec 14, 20246 min read


Maintaining Motivation In Eating Disorder Recovery-A Simple Tool
Eating disorder recovery is long and hard, making it easy to lose motivation. This post provides a simple tool that can help you keep going.
Helly Barnes
Oct 24, 20246 min read


Why Is Overcoming An Eating Disorder SO Hard? The Return of Emotions
The powerful return of emotions when overcoming an eating disorder is one factor that makes the process so hard. This post explores more...
Helly Barnes
Sep 1, 20248 min read


Self-Empowerment To Overcome An Eating Disorder
To overcome an eating disorder, self-empowerment in your process is critical. This post discusses what it involves and why it's important.
Helly Barnes
Jul 29, 20249 min read


Be The Hero, Not The Victim: Eating Disorder Recovery
An eating disorder can make you feel like life is happening to you and give a victim mindset. But why not be the hero of your story instead?
Helly Barnes
Mar 22, 20246 min read


Let's Get Real About 'Quasi-Recovery' & Eating Disorders
It's time to get real about 'quasi-recovery' and eating disorders… it's a state of being 'highly functional' with an active eating disorder.
Helly Barnes
Feb 28, 20247 min read

Why Fun Matters in Building Your Life Beyond an Eating Disorder
Eating disorders can eradicate fun in life. This post considers why fun really does matter in building your life beyond an eating disorder.
Helly Barnes
Jan 13, 20245 min read


Achieve Your Eating Disorder Eliminating Goals By Setting Daily Intentions
Setting eating disorder eliminating goals is very important to overcome an eating disorder but daily intentions can help to achieve them.
Helly Barnes
Dec 31, 20236 min read


Don't Think - Just Eat to Overcome a Restrictive Eating Disorder
When you are struggling to make food decisions in order to overcome an eating disorder, try applying the 'Don't Think - Just Eat' approach.
Helly Barnes
Dec 11, 20237 min read


"I Just Can't Decide What to Eat!" Food Decisions & Eating Disorders
When overcoming an eating disorder, food decisions can feel overwhelming. But what if you don’t actually have to decide?
Helly Barnes
Nov 26, 20235 min read


Overcoming an Eating Disorder in Mid or Later Life - Part 2 - Partners & Spouses
Overcoming an eating disorder in your mid or later life and when you have a partner or spouse to consider can bring benefits and challenges.
Helly Barnes
Oct 22, 202314 min read


Overcome Restrictive Eating by Deliberately Eating To Gain
Eat to gain weight and eat to gain your life back when you overcome a restrictive eating disorder. This post explains why and how!
Helly Barnes
Sep 28, 20239 min read


The Power of Anger & Angry Eating in Overcoming an Eating Disorder
Anger is a forceful and valid emotion and can be powerful if directed in the right direction when you are overcoming an eating disorder.
Helly Barnes
Sep 21, 20239 min read


Are Eating Disorders a Choice?
Many people say that recovery from an eating disorder or even that having an eating disorder is a conscious choice. Is there truth in this?
Helly Barnes
Sep 14, 20236 min read

The Pendulum-Swing Effect in Eating Disorder Recovery
Eating disorder recovery can feel like being on a pendulum where the eating disorder pulled you one way and you swing to the other 'extreme'
Helly Barnes
Sep 3, 20238 min read


Let's Talk About Poop & Restrictive Eating Disorders
Having a restrictive eating disorder and overcoming one will affect your poop and digestion. Tips to cope with these symptoms are provided.
Helly Barnes
Aug 26, 20236 min read


Linking The Evolutionary Theory & Addiction Model for Eating Disorders
Eating disorders and the ability of the brain to develop an addiction to energy deficit have an evolutionary explanation, explained here.
Helly Barnes
Aug 19, 20238 min read


Restrictive Eating Disorders DON'T Have a Size!
Restrictive eating disorders don't have a size. They are in fact more common in people who are not 'underweight' by BMI than those who are..
Helly Barnes
Aug 13, 20236 min read
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