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MY TWO BOOKS ARE AVAILABLE NOW...
ADDICTED TO ENERGY DEFICIT—YOUR NEUROSCIENCE BASED GUIDE TO RESTRICTIVE EATING DISORDERS
& AIMING For OVERSHOOT—THE HANDBOOK YOU NEED TO FULLY OVERCOME A RESTRICTIVE EATING DISORDER
Helly Barnes~
Professional Coach

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All About Restrictive Eating Disorders aka
An Addiction to Energy Deficit
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How to prevent an eating disorder relapse
In this third post on lapses and relapses in eating disorder recovery, the important topic of how to prevent a relapse is covered in depth.
Helly Barnes
Dec 23, 20247 min read


Maintaining Motivation In Eating Disorder Recovery-A Simple Tool
Eating disorder recovery is long and hard, making it easy to lose motivation. This post provides a simple tool that can help you keep going.
Helly Barnes
Oct 24, 20246 min read


Be The Hero, Not The Victim: Eating Disorder Recovery
An eating disorder can make you feel like life is happening to you and give a victim mindset. But why not be the hero of your story instead?
Helly Barnes
Mar 22, 20246 min read

Why Fun Matters in Building Your Life Beyond an Eating Disorder
Eating disorders can eradicate fun in life. This post considers why fun really does matter in building your life beyond an eating disorder.
Helly Barnes
Jan 13, 20245 min read


Achieve Your Eating Disorder Eliminating Goals By Setting Daily Intentions
Setting eating disorder eliminating goals is very important to overcome an eating disorder but daily intentions can help to achieve them.
Helly Barnes
Dec 31, 20236 min read


Don't Think - Just Eat to Overcome a Restrictive Eating Disorder
When you are struggling to make food decisions in order to overcome an eating disorder, try applying the 'Don't Think - Just Eat' approach.
Helly Barnes
Dec 11, 20237 min read


"I Just Can't Decide What to Eat!" Food Decisions & Eating Disorders
When overcoming an eating disorder, food decisions can feel overwhelming. But what if you don’t actually have to decide?
Helly Barnes
Nov 26, 20235 min read


Self Identity & Overcoming an Eating Disorder
Self-identity is deeply affected by an eating disorder. Recovery means allowing in a sense of identity crisis to learn who you really are.
Helly Barnes
Oct 15, 20236 min read


Overcome Restrictive Eating by Deliberately Eating To Gain
Eat to gain weight and eat to gain your life back when you overcome a restrictive eating disorder. This post explains why and how!
Helly Barnes
Sep 28, 20239 min read


The Power of Anger & Angry Eating in Overcoming an Eating Disorder
Anger is a forceful and valid emotion and can be powerful if directed in the right direction when you are overcoming an eating disorder.
Helly Barnes
Sep 21, 20239 min read

The Pendulum-Swing Effect in Eating Disorder Recovery
Eating disorder recovery can feel like being on a pendulum where the eating disorder pulled you one way and you swing to the other 'extreme'
Helly Barnes
Sep 3, 20238 min read


Let's Talk About Poop & Restrictive Eating Disorders
Having a restrictive eating disorder and overcoming one will affect your poop and digestion. Tips to cope with these symptoms are provided.
Helly Barnes
Aug 26, 20236 min read


Moderation to Overcome a Restrictive Eating Disorder & Addiction to Energy Deficit?!?
A dive into what a moderation approach to overcoming a restrictive eating disorder and addiction to energy deficit can look like.
Helly Barnes
Jul 28, 20237 min read


The Scarcity Mindset & Restrictive Eating Disorders
Restrictive eating disorders create a scarcity mindset which impact on behaviours related to food, money spending & even lead to stealing.
Helly Barnes
Apr 21, 202313 min read


Pre-Mortems and Eating Disorder Bashing
A pre mortem is a tool to use in eating disorder recovery to predict how a recovery situation might go wrong to help ensure it goes right!
Helly Barnes
Mar 22, 20238 min read


"I'm Giving Up... Let the Eating Disorder Consume Me!"
A personal post in which I share a journal entry made at a point in the process to overcome an eating disorder when I wanted to give up.
Helly Barnes
Mar 8, 20234 min read


Make the Weight Gain Justified!
Weight gain while still restricting or compensating as you attempt to overcome an eating disorder feels unjustified. Escape this scenario!
Helly Barnes
Feb 3, 20236 min read


Overcome an Eating Disorder by Making Commitments that Work FOR You!
Commitments in the process of overcoming an eating disorder can be hard to keep.
If-Then Plans can help pin your commitments to real life
Helly Barnes
Jan 17, 20236 min read


Eat to Extreme Hunger to Overcome an Eating Disorder
Extreme hunger when overcoming an eating disorder can be frightening and extreme! These are some first hand experiences of how it can look.
Helly Barnes
Dec 27, 20229 min read


Eating Disorder Recovery Need Not Be a Tug of War (Part 2)
What does a tug of war between a person in recovery and an eating disorder look like and what does it look like to walk away from the games?
Helly Barnes
Dec 20, 20229 min read
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